We all tend to operate on the assumption that we know a lot about how men think about sex, but what do we really know. For guys it’s a tough subject to be rational about, but I believe it is worth trying to pull back and take a look at our behavior.
This article claims that there are a variety of misconceptions and that part of the problem is that the alpha male – Romeo – Casanova – is such a great foil for screenwriters, playwrights, and novelist. He certainly is one of the few stereotypes that the media can pound in everything from news stories to sitcoms and regardless of how sophisticated we are that media barrage does tend to sink in over time.
Anyhow, the article is worth taking a look at, particularly if you aren’t feeling great about your game. Honestly, you’re probably better with women than you believe you are.