1. Learn about Poland
When dating a Polish woman, it is important that you are educated and interested in her home country’s history, traditions and culture. Polish people are proud and patriotic and will respond well to feeling like you truly care about their native land.
Read up about the country so that you have a certain base knowledge about things that matter to her. Don’t spout off facts all evening because that will seem forced and be a turn off. Instead, ask questions, show interest and chime in when you have something interesting to add
2. Learn some Polish
Even if she speaks perfect English, it is a nice gesture to be able to speak at least a tiny bit of Polish. It will put her at ease and she will enjoy seeing that you are trying.
You can also ask her to teach you some and you can teach her a little bit of English. This is a fun way to spend time together and get to know one another.
3. Show Manners
Polish people value manners above all else. Being respectful, polite and well-spoken will all win you points with a Polish girl. Never act rude, cocky or show off.
She will not respond well to this at all. You will be seen as an arrogant American and she will lose interest quickly. Polish women are strong and intelligent and will not let you get away with acting inappropriately.
4. Ask About Their Family and Friends
Family, friends and social ties are the most important thing in Polish culture. Women will be most impressed by your interest in creating and maintaining relationships with her family and friends.
They will also be glad to know if you have a strong relationship with your family. Your money or career are far less important than your social standing, your manners and your general family values.
5. Treat Them Like a “Normal Person”
If you make a big deal out of her being Polish you may begin to seem like the most important thing to you is that she is Polish. She will start to feel interchangeable with other Polish women.
It will seem like all that matters is finding ANY Polish girl to date. So, show an interest in her culture and her language but just treat her like a normal girl.
6. Understand the Polish Value System
As we mentioned in number 4, money and career are not nearly as important to Polish people as your general demeanor, personality, manners and sincerity. They are not driven by money and are more interested in genuine people whom they can trust.
You should be aware of that fact when getting to know your date. She will fall in love with a poor, nice guy long before a rich jerk!
7. Understand the Importance of Catholicism in Poland
Most, though not all, Polish people are Catholic. They value the Catholic religion deeply and feel strongly about the importance of religion in their life. Showing respect, reverence and understanding of the Catholic church is a must for most Polish girls.
Even if you are not religious at all, never make jokes or put down her religion. She will immediately write you off for disrespecting her cultural traditions.